You don’t have hobbies
I mean real hobbies outside of shopping and drinking. Or church eyeroll or whatever nonsense you think makes you look valuable to a man. Men want companionship, someone they can have fun with. Bonus if they can incorporate you in their friend group. You don’t have to like sports but then you may not need to be with a diehard NFL guy. Also it’s OKAY to have different hobbies than your man but you need to have something. No man wants a woman who sit up under him all day, unless that’s just your thing (but that goes back to what I mentioned earlier, knowing what YOU want and therefore what you expect from a man).
Men find it impressive if you have hobbies you are passionate about. You get bonus points for trying new things. Men like women who have their own lives.it is important to be able to entertain yourself especially if you are to be with a man who has a business about himself. You can’t say you want a provider then complain he’s working all the time. He’s not gonna wanna argue why he’s always working. Be his peace then and let him spend his leisure with you. Only relax & be leisurely with employed men .
Comments
Konnie
Great article with ‘real talk’ facts! Thank you for writing this.
Daniesha Johnson
I enjoyed reading this!
Marita
I’m glad you enjoyed it Daniesha! Be sure to sign up for updates!
Nonkululeko
One of the best articles I have read in a long time. I am truly in awe at such a sound, and articulate piece you have decided to share. I have decided to work fully on myself. Self love is a full time job ,from now on I will work on things people can’t take away from me, that is my character and personality.
Marita
I’m am happy it resonated! I truly believe it starts with getting clear on what you want and not compromising our big picture. I recommend snagging a few of the books I mentioned to help you on your journey!
Taylor
Look #4 hurt me to the core and I’ve been sitting on this one for awhile. I’ve always been okay with most of my close friend group being single (and the ones that aren’t being with men that don’t fit my personal standards) but as I’ve gotten older, I now understand how harmful that is to me and my journey. I like your book recommendations but how would you recommend finding/expanding to more like-minded friend groups as an adult?
Marita
It happens and a lot of times we don’t think about it. But it’s true, just like with most things, if you want something for yourself you need to get around people who have what you want. Surround yourself with likeminded people or people that can help you attract what you want. I’m not sure if there is a book that you need to read to know that you may want to expand your network of friends.
Taylor
My question is how do I expand my network to gain like-minded close friendships? I’ve found as an adult it gets harder to do.
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